How To Have Public Sex Without Getting Caught

Five Public Places You Can Get It On Without Getting Caught

No matter how fun and satisfying your sex life with your best girl is, there’s something exhilarating about throwing a little danger into your routine. Enter: having sex in public. Wendy Strgar, author of Love That Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy, says what’s hot for most people about having sex in public is how it takes you out of the realm of comfort. “Endorphins in the brain increase due to a combo of fear of being caught and the anticipation of an orgasm,” she says. “Since it’s so out of the ordinary, engaging in public sex will be something you remember, regardless if you actually had an orgasm or got caught. It’s the experience itself that’s memorable.”

While you might have considered or fantasized about getting it on in your office or hidden away in a side alley on your way home from work, if you really want to take up the ante, it’s important to be strategic about where you decide to go for it. So before you start slyly suggesting that your girlfriend lift up her skirt, here are some places that experts recommend to have sex in public:

1. In A Parked Car 

If you want to minimize the risk of getting of caught but are still kind of interested in someone seeing you going at it, consider having sex in a car garage. Dr. Roudabeh Rahbar, licensed clinical psychologist in Southern California, says many of his clients have said they love having sex this way because it adds a voyeurism aspect to the affair. A car garage has the right balance of public and private, so it’s an ideal place to go for your first public sex encounter.

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2. In Your Apartment Or Hotel With The Windows Open

While it might not seem like having sex inside of your home is actually a public outing, if you invite strangers to peer in, it is. What can be hot about opening a window or having sex against the window in a hotel, is your level of comfort. Both of you will feel more at ease since you’re not, technically-speaking, outside, so the intensity level of intercourse will be more passionate. There’s also something pretty sexy about not knowing who saw you or how long they watched.

3. In A Private Restaurant Or Bar Bathroom

Avoid those multi-stall situations if you want to have sex at your favorite restaurant or bar and make sure to go on an off night where it’s not as busy. The key to successfully pulling off this public sex experience is coming prepared — she needs to easily be able to mount you, and you need to be comfortable sitting down in a not-always-sanitary situation. Keep your noise level in check if you don’t want the bartender cutting your tab off early.

4. In The Movie Theater

Like a private restroom, the trick to making this rendezvous exciting and successful is going during a random time where not many people are in the theater. It’s also important to make sure you select a loud movie — think action and adventure — that will muffle any moans or bodily sounds that either of your make. May we suggest bringing a towel to lay down on the floor so you don’t leave with popcorn stuck to your back.

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5. In A Park At Nighttime

First and foremost, be smart about this one: if it isn’t a safe part of town, avoid it. There’s no reason to put you and your girlfriend in serious trouble just to have an orgasm. When there isn’t anyone around — likely at nighttime — find a shady tree, bring a blanket and go at it. The best part of about this public sex idea is that you can afford to be a little louder because there likely won’t be too many people around.